Pragmatics is the study of how language is used in social settings—essentially, how communication works. Just as the child may struggle with emotions, the child may also struggle to express thoughts clearly or to understand what others are communicating through facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, and other nonverbal cues. While some children learn these skills naturally by observing others, many need direct instruction and practice to navigate social situations successfully.
According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association:
Pragmatics involve three major communication skills:
An individual with pragmatic struggles may:
Parents and teachers can help a child use language appropriately in social situations (pragmatics)!
Pragmatics can be improved with practice. Download these example questions to use during classroom circle time, mealtimes, or while driving. Tweak these questions to fit the child's ability and situation.
Behavior
Example Questions: What should you do when you sneeze?
Describe
Example Statement: Tell me what your favorite pizza toppings are.
Emotions and Feelings
Example Questions: What do you do if someone gives you a present that you don’t like?
Knowledge
Example Situation: You walk into a room and see your sister crying. What should you do?
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Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss is a beloved story about Sam-I-Am, a character who tries to convince an unnamed friend to try green eggs and ham, despite his refusal to do so in various situations. Sam-I-Am's persistence ultimately leads to a humorous and satisfying conclusion when the friend discovers he actually likes the dish. This timeless book is perfect for teaching children about pragmatics, the value of open-mindedness and trying new things. Discover how to read this book focusing on pragmatics.
The Little Mouse, the Red Ripe Strawberry, and the Big Hungry Bear by Don and Audrey Wood is a charming tale about a little mouse who discovers a delicious strawberry and must protect it from a big, hungry bear. As the mouse tries to hide the strawberry and keep it safe, he comes up with clever plans to outsmart the bear. With its playful illustrations and engaging story, this book teaches pragmatic skills and themes of sharing and friendship while keeping young readers entertained.
Should I Share My Ice Cream? follows Gerald, the elephant, as he wrestles with the decision to share his ice cream with his friend Piggie. The dynamic illustrations and simple storyline by Mo Willems provide ample opportunities to discuss pragmatics skills with a child.
I highly suggest many of the books in the Elephant and Piggie series.
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